Category: Mental health
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The Over-Thinker’s Dilemma: How to Tame RJ Rumination

Exhausted by relentless Retroactive Jealousy rumination? Here are 4 practical ways to tame intense RJ thoughts. Read more
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When RJ goes Borderline: spotting the signs of BPD in Retroactive Jealousy

Does your Retroactive Jealousy spiral into rage, emotional shutdown, or controlling behavior? Learn the warning signs that distinguish BPD from OCD. Read more
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Retroactive Jealousy: when thoughts of her past cause arousal too

When thoughts of our partner’s past are intrusive AND arousing, that’s confusing. What do we do with them? Read more
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Retroactive Jealousy bombshells: why partners suddenly reveal their past

Retroactive Jealousy hitting hard after a past reveal? Is your partner’s ‘bombshell’ a red flag… or a call for growth? Read more
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Retroactive Jealousy and your brain’s disgust response

Retroactive Jealousy often means feeling disgusted by your partner’s sexual past. Disgust is a natural reflex, so can you help feeling it? Read more
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Retroactive Jealousy and the bodycount white lie

If you struggle with retroactive jealousy, it’s tempting to ‘level yourself up’. What could possibly go wrong? Read more
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The AI therapist: how ChatGPT and Gemini are changing the game for RJ

Can an AI chatbot really help you overcome retroactive jealousy? Read more
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Navigating Retroactive Jealousy: essential tips for partners

Learn to set boundaries, handle flare-ups and protect your well-being – with empathy and respect. Read more
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A Retroactive Jealousy Nightmare: the truth I found (and regretted)

Retroactive jealousy driving you to dig for evidence? Discover why snooping hurts more than it helps and how to heal from the obsession. Read more
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Retroactive Jealousy & Ex-Fantasies: a reality check for your peace of mind

Worried that your partner thinks about their ex? Or even fantasises about them? Read more