Jason Dean
Psychological therapy in Basingstoke
Blog
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What Retroactive Jealousy does with the things you read online
Pair bonding theory. Reddit threads. Evolutionary psychology. Here’s what retroactive jealousy actually does with the research – and why it makes the loop worse. Read more
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Why great sex doesn’t fix Retroactive Jealousy
Great sex should fix retroactive jealousy – so why doesn’t it? The answer reveals something important about where RJ really comes from. Read more
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Agreeing not to discuss the past won’t protect you from Retroactive Jealousy
A ‘no past talk’ agreement feels fair and sensible. But it won’t protect you from retroactive jealousy – and it might backfire. Read more
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Meditation and Retroactive Jealousy: helpful practice or rumination with candles?
Can meditation help with retroactive jealousy? Sometimes – but for many people, it quietly makes things worse. Read more
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Why talking to your partner about their past doesn’t help
Asking your partner about their past feels natural – but it won’t ease retroactive jealousy. Here’s what’s really going on. Read more
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“Let them, let me”: a better way to handle Retroactive Jealousy
Radical acceptance not shifting your retroactive jealousy? Discover why “Let Them” is only half the answer. Read more
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“What if she enjoyed it?” – understanding Retroactive Jealousy OCD
Retroactive jealousy OCD goes beyond ordinary envy. Learn why its doubts are uniquely distressing – and what therapy actually targets to help. Read more
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My partner has more experience than me — and it’s driving me crazy
A real concern or retroactive jealousy? Let’s get clear on what your doubt actually is. Read more
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Retroactive Jealousy: when your partner’s past feels like a crisis
Do you feel you “should have walked away” because of your partner’s past? Read more
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Why is Retroactive Jealousy on the rise? 6 modern triggers
Why is Retroactive Jealousy on the rise? Discover 6 modern triggers – from social media to body counts – and why you aren’t alone. Read more