Category: Relationships
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“Damaged goods?” Retroactive Jealousy judgement and hurt

Learn how retroactive jealousy creates harsh judgments about your partner’s past, and how to recognise and break free from this pattern. Read more
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The Over-Thinker’s Dilemma: How to Tame RJ Rumination

Exhausted by relentless Retroactive Jealousy rumination? Here are 4 practical ways to tame intense RJ thoughts. Read more
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When RJ goes Borderline: spotting the signs of BPD in Retroactive Jealousy

Does your Retroactive Jealousy spiral into rage, emotional shutdown, or controlling behavior? Learn the warning signs that distinguish BPD from OCD. Read more
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Retroactive Jealousy: when thoughts of her past cause arousal too

When thoughts of our partner’s past are intrusive AND arousing, that’s confusing. What do we do with them? Read more
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Retroactive Jealousy bombshells: why partners suddenly reveal their past

Retroactive Jealousy hitting hard after a past reveal? Is your partner’s ‘bombshell’ a red flag… or a call for growth? Read more